A Friend in need.

 

“Don’t walk in front of me… I may not follow
Don’t walk behind me… I may not lead
Walk beside me… just be my friend”
― Albert Camus

How it all started-:

It started after 1yr of the Covid pandemic  breakthrough, I was going to a coaching center for studying for JEE exam, There was one more friend who came to the same coaching center to study for JEE exam,

Let's call him Pinocchio, we both were in the same batch, at the coaching center studying for JEE exam.

There was one friend of Pinocchio, Let's call him DOG(you will understand why would I call him DOG).

he was also in the same coaching center studying for NEET, and we all were in the same school too, so I too became a friend of a dog,  And this whole story is about DOG.

The dog was kind of a person who doesn't have any filters in him, he speak whatever, whenever he want, without any thought.  he was kind of dumb too. 

So there was a girl whose name let's call her Lizard, Dog liked Lizard too much for 6-7 years but was never able to express his love to her, he talked with her daily but was never able to say a single thing about his liking things. UNTIL........

Rejection By the LIZARD-:

We all were in the class 12th, and it was the last day of our lab internals, we all were standing outside the school chilling and all, then (Oh I forgot to say it was Valentine's Day), 

one of our friends let's call him Machar motivated  DOG to go and propose to the Lizard, Then as all friends usually do, we do the same thing to motivate him to go and propose to the lizard. 

He gathers so much courage, bought a bar of chocolate for her, and went to her (even though he didn't say anything ) he just gives a bar to Lizard, then Lizard returns half of the bar to him back.

We all were like yeeee Dog you Nailed it!!, (but nothing ever goes as planned in this accursed world), we all were wrong next day he got blocked by the Lizard from every social media platform,

 and she stopped talking to him, and blah blah blah..., we all told him that there are so many girls in the world, just you to find another Lizard for you, but he never listened to us. (1st reason).

Board Exams-:

There was a board Exam for class 12th,(and I forgot to say one thing again, that he really study a lot literally a lot, around 8-10 hours daily), so there was a board exam for class 12th.

and DOG was too excited about exams, and yeah he studied for boards too much that he did not even come to play Holi, only because of study and he was really a hardworking student, but don't know,

what happened he was not able to score good marks on boards exam and even in NEET(especially BIO which was his favorite subject) this was the (2nd reason)...  

The addiction started-:

So we all went to our lives, I came to Bangalore for pursuing BE, and Some other friends went to other colleges, and DOG decided to take the drop and give him more chances to clear a NEET.

Once a month we usually do a (google meet)meeting to discuss our life, what is going on and all, so in March we again had a meeting to talk, where I saw the dog smoking and drinking a lot,

he told that he does complete 2 boxes of cigarettes in 1 week, actually, I don't know how he started smoking and all, but I know that those 2 reasons lead him to start drinking and smoking.

SOLUTION-:

                                    ध्यायतो विषयान्पुंस: सङ्गस्तेषूपजायते |

                                    सङ्गात्सञ्जायते काम: कामात्क्रोधोऽभिजायते || 62||

The mind usually does 3 things, thinking, filling, and willing, In condition to stop the addiction we all try, to cut the willing, which is not possible, in reality, we have to cut the thinking.

Most people do complain that why this thought came to their mind, but their work is not to complain, their work is to cut the thinking of their addiction.

Just start some different work that can deflect your thinking, I know it's not that easy but with some willpower, it can possible. try to live with someone who can stop you to do that addictive thing.

This may make you angry but with little knowledge and practice you can do it. 

Conclusion-:

Everything is okay even love If it is done properly, anything which exceeds its limit may bring destruction.  and Dog you can do it, it a time just stop smoking and move on. 

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