Expectation VS Reality!!

 “If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.”

― Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar

OVERVIEW:-

There are some theories, some incidents, and some of common expectations we all have,

Today in this blog, I will cover those Expectations and how Reality hits.  

Stay tuned and Let's get started...

WHAT IS EXPECTATION:-

Expectations can be defined as those that are regarded as likely to happen. As human beings, we are full of expectations for the future.

 We consider these our future and our realizations for the future. When a person has high expectations for himself, there is a greater possibility of being disappointed if these are not met.

 For example, a student with high expectations of entering a prestigious university will be crushed if he fails to meet these expectations.

WHAT IS REALITY:-

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, reality can be defined as the state of things as they exist. This includes everything that surrounds us such as our personal views, our attitudes, behavior, relationships, etc.

Reality, unlike expectations, is the real condition of our life. We create our expectations based on our realities.

THEORIES ON EXPECTATIONS:-

1:- One of the great leaders, Told us about Expectations, what is the meaning of Expectations and reality in their life, and How they deal with all the circumstances.

They told us that " They Expect 100%, But whatever the result came they will accept that and move on" By NICK FURY{ Avenger: age of Ultron}.

2:- While in the same Marvel universe, MJ had a different theory, according to her,

"Never expect too much, because if reality hits you, there will be no chance of heartbreak."

3:- This Theory is given by one of the best villains ever in anime verse ( From Naruto), This is one of my favorite lines from Naruto By MADARA UCHIA👇.

According to me, this is the best theory and the best definition of Expectation VS Reality. 

4:- There are some more like, 

“Don’t lower your expectations to meet your performance. Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations. Expect the best of yourself, and then do what is necessary to make it a reality.” – Ralph Marston Jr.

 “Planting the trees of positive expectancy in your mind is the best way to reap a positive harvest in the future.” – Shivan Singh

But According to me these all are nothing just a way to spread fake motivation and all. Reality Hit hard and it's 100% true, to prove this I have some Incidents. 

SOME INCIDENTS, WHY WE NEED A WALL B/W EXPECTATIONS AND REALITY. 

1:- I Expected that When I will be in college there will be parties and ( Aish hi Aish hogi) Day and night clubbing, Parties, There will be girls all around me, and many more. 

But As I already told Reality hit hard. 

The day I entered college, a girl blocked me,(why i got blocked) who I'd been talking to for so long, blocked me right away (If you haven't read this blog then go and check it out)

There are no girls around me, Only assignments are there, 

No Clubbing, parties Day and Night, Only assignments, mini projects, MOOC, etc...  are there. 

2:- There is one more Expectation in mind of one of the famous singers, and I bet you all know her name (NEHA KAKKAR), She thinks that she sings very well👏.

And yeah we accept that🙇 with auto-tune she sings very well, but when reality hits it hits very hard, 👇.

3:- One of my blog readers, Told me that she expected that the college will be so big, as there was so much hype about our college CMRIT in Bangalore, But we all know what is the reality. 

4:- You remember the dog from my first blog A Friend in Need, 

He also had some hopes that the lizard might accept his proposal, or he will able to clear his neet, but we all know what happened to him, this high Expectation lead him to start smoking,

( just for an update, the dog is trying to lose the habit of smoking, but still is not able to move on from lizard) 

BTW If you haven't read my first blog then go and check it out A friend in Need. 

5:- Recently, one of my college friends, who was in love with some girl in our college, thought that she will also love him back, and she is single and she will accept his proposal, 

but some days back...

Reality came out, she had a bf in another college, and now my friend is in depression, but the best thing is he is trying to move on as one of the legends said that"First girl's wound, only second girl can heal" from the movie ( Desi Boyz).

6:- I too have so many Expectations from Cultura2023, Let's see if reality will be able to fulfill my expectation or not (the blog on cultura2023 is coming on 11/6/2023). 

CONCLUSION:-

                                                            कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन |

                                                         मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि || 47 ||

We all are Human beings, and as human beings, it's necessary to have Expectations like

An Employee has the expectation of an increment in salary, Because of these Expectations he works hard, 

Parents have Expectations with their children, that they will have a respected life in the future and all, To fulfill this parents work too hard. 

Expectations are necessary for progressing but over-expectations always lead to either heartbreak or this can destroy your life.

The main thing works Either you have expectations or not, try to give your 100% in whatever work you do.  

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CULTURA2023 is coming....................